Spacemonkey Jello - Some Defriending

Some Defriending

Oct. 27th, 2008 at 8:30 AM

I did somewhat random defriending this morning. I was only looking to cull a few friends and communities in which I feel our interests have wandered. Partly this is to just trim up my flist so I'm not scrolling past so much and partly this is to get a flist that better reflects where my head is these days.

If you feel like I've defriended you in error, or if you already have me friended and would like to make your voice heard so I can get to know you better and add you to my flist, feel free to respond here.

These days my journal tends to gravitate around:

And it's always defriending amnesty, so if you'd like to part ways with me, please go right ahead.

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grass-stained.livejournal.com wrote:

Oct. 27th, 2008 02:53 pm (UTC)

What does it say about my frame of mind that I actually checked to see if you'd defriended me?

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theemdash wrote:

Oct. 27th, 2008 02:56 pm (UTC)

That you are suffering from low self-esteem?

Really, though, that was just silly of you. *hugs*

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roadrunner1896.livejournal.com wrote:

Oct. 27th, 2008 03:57 pm (UTC)

*hugs*

I had a similar impulse, but then I remembered that Em can't defriend me ever!

Even though at the moment the point I am most interested in up on that list is sadly "editing (& work grumblings)".

We will bore each other to death.

Awesome.

*hugs you and Em*

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theemdash wrote:

Oct. 27th, 2008 04:58 pm (UTC)

I really wish there was a way to perma-friend you.

Also, I'm looking forward to us boring each other to death.

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roadrunner1896.livejournal.com wrote:

Oct. 27th, 2008 05:42 pm (UTC)

I thought we already did perma-friend each other after I had defriended you for those horrible five minutes a few years ago.

Don't make me nervous about these kind of posts from you. Really.

*clings*

Boring each other to death will be so much fun!

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theemdash wrote:

Oct. 27th, 2008 05:44 pm (UTC)

I mean like an lj feature to perma-friend. In our minds we are perma-friended. *clings*

Really, we won't bore each other that much. We still have apples.

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roadrunner1896.livejournal.com wrote:

Oct. 27th, 2008 05:47 pm (UTC)

But that would be kinda cruel. What if the person you perma-friend turns out to be a total ass. I had it happen. Well, not someone quite as close as you, but pretty close for an online friendship. Even marriage can get divorced.

Mind perma-friends are the best!

Yes, we do have apples.

And it is not like you bore me. There just isn't anything for me to squee about at the moment and the only entries I comment seem to be your work entries. Which are not really boring. Just not squeeworthy.

*squees just for the fun of it*

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surferartchick.livejournal.com wrote:

Oct. 27th, 2008 06:24 pm (UTC)

Defriending amnesty *snort* that's awesome. Do people actually get mad when they defriend?

*waves* I'm back :D

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